Your favourite podcast Not As We Planned is going LIVE! The Exposure Tour is hitting the road to London, Manchester and Edinburgh to hunt down the UK’s biggest red flag men.

After hearing thousands of your dating horror stories, relationship dilemmas and “how did I ignore THAT?” moments, the girls are bringing the honest conversations, chaos and dating disasters to the stage for a night of brutal honesty, outrageous confessions and live red flag investigations.

No topic is off limits — from heartbreak and healing to the dating stories that should’ve been warning signs from day one.

Expect unhinged dating stories, audience participation, questionable male behaviour, and deep dives into modern dating disasters — from love bombing and breadcrumbing to ghosting, gaslighting and men who “just aren’t ready for a relationship right now.”

If you’ve ever ignored your intuition, defended a man who absolutely did not deserve it, or heard the words “my ex was crazy”… this tour is for you.

Come ready to laugh, gasp, overshare and help expose the UK’s worst dating behaviour one city at a time.

Make sure to grab one of the limited VIP Packages, including a pre-show Meet & Greet with Tash & Carly, a photo opportunity, a goodie bag featuring some of their favourite brands, and the best seats in the house.

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